Thanks for reminding me of this. Also, Medium quoting wouldn't seem to let me grab the giant Y of Y.
I really liked that you did not name 'It'. It can be many things. But if It did any of the items in the first paragraph, then 'It is not okay.' I agree.
Thanks for reminding me that I am the one I have been waiting for -- and YOU too. You have helped. We are the ones we've been waiting for; Words matter. Thank you for yours!!