I'm interested, will be emailing, but.... the number of times you said 'women in their 30's, 40's, etc....' felt like you just couldn't cough your way up to 50's, 60's, 70's. Be careful that you don't simply have a different ageism than the 20-somethings who are viewing you as older.
I mean if you know who Steve Erkel is (referenced in one of your statements about who you are) then I think you have to be 50, right? So let's say it. Let's not dance around it.